It may seem premature, but with only 90 shopping days left 'til Christmas, 5 days less for Hanukkah, it's not too early for this discussion. So, with that qualifier in place, I'll press on.
I'm from a family of eight. Probably as much as a matter of economy as for any fun value, we had a tradition of exchanging names for Christmas gifts. That is, our parents would place all eight names in a bowl and we would each draw out a name. That would be your secret recipient of a Christmas present. It was great fun and pure parental genius. There was the all important element of surprise as well as offering significant economy as opposed to each child buying for all siblings.
We have carried on this tradition through the years. As we've all gotten a bit older and no longer want dolls that wet and cap guns, we've started to ask each family member to write on a common subject which reflects on our heritage, our family, shared memories and individual insights. My brother Pete wrote the other day to introduce this year's topic and I've decided to extend the invitation to anyone who happens upon this note.
This year we are each going to reflect on the 4 or 5 lessons we have learned in life; things, after all the years, we feel are true. The object is to reflect on your life to date. What have you learned? Sifting through all the ups and downs and back and forth, what can you tell me? What can you tell your child or grandchild? What can you tell yourself?
It's a great assignment; one which asks you to look back and think about what comes into view. Weigh it, digest it and see what good you can make of it. Feel free to borrow the idea. Do your own work. You may just find this is an early Christmas present from us to you.
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